Storytellers are Sponges

a cubist painting of an underwater garden with a sponge

Storytellers are constantly absorbing impressions: the sights, sounds, smells, and vibe of the world. What is becomes what could be. Meaning is extracted and communicated.

But the problem with being a sponge is that you soak up a lot of negativity.

Australia has a classic anti-smoking ad where a sponge is squeezed to show the tar from smoking cigarettes dropping disgustingly into a beaker.

For some storytellers, that tar (all the heartbreak and suffering in the world) is squeezed out to become a bleak portrayal of survival and resistance. Sometimes that very bleakness becomes a rallying cry.

But for me, I don’t want to pass on the negativity. It stops with me. The stories I tell are about good people inhabiting interesting, hopeful worlds. Conflict is part of life, but it can be positive not simply destructive. My stories push back against the negativity I’ve absorbed.

The lungs as sponges metaphor is useful because one of the cures for the world’s negativity is to breathe the fresh air of joy. So, I search out stories of hope and resilience: the scientists assembling building blocks of knowledge to solve our problems; communities caring for each other; cute animal pictures, all the wonder that exists beyond the negativity and which will outlast it and prevail.


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2 responses to “Storytellers are Sponges”

  1. Mema Avatar
    Mema

    I like your outlook, your way of thinking. That is why I enjoy your books so much!

    1. Jenny Schwartz Avatar

      Woohoo! Thanks, Mema 🙂 Some days are harder than others to remain positive. It really helps to read comments like yours. What a year it’s been!